Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Most people at one point or another have their heart broken. It's a fact. There are far fewer people who find your one true love with the first person you fall in love with. The cool thing about this is your are not alone. You have plenty of company as those who do find their one true love on their first try are actually the minority.
The best advice for the broken hearted is to just get over it. If it is over and the other person does not want to see you anymore, move on. Do not let the person who had your heart hurt you any more by dwelling on the past. Be proactive and step into something new.
Go out and live your life. Do things that you have always wanted to do but you just never had the time or the chance to. Do things that excite you or even go out and try things so you can find out what excites you. I know in the back of everyone's mind is that thought, "But I don't have much money." Do not worry about that. Who says that doing and finding things that excite you has to cost a lot of money. Save up for things that do cost money, but go out and meet people. Invite your friends over or if you don't have too many friends, go out and make some new ones.
Having your heart broken is definitely not the end of the world, so go out there and make the most of it. Another thing that can happen is the person who broke your heart may see that you are doing so well and having so much fun, that they may come back to you. Be careful if this happens. Really sit down and weigh out whether you are better with or without them.
To sum up, the best advice for the broken hearted is to get over the breakup and move on with your life. Take your mind off of the other person by filling your life with fun and exciting things. Go out and make new friends as you hang out with your old friends. While being broken hearted will hurt for a short period, do not let that feeling stay with you. You have the ability to change the way you feel about anything, so feel good and have fun.